The Nektalov Family

Nektalov

נקטלוב

Keeping our names, our dates, and our stories — so that memory stays a blessing.

Our family Light a memory
Scroll
The name we carry

Where we come from

Nektalov is a Bukharian Jewish name — a small, distinct community that lived for centuries in Bukhara and Samarkand, along the old Silk Road of Central Asia, keeping Sephardic custom and Torah alive far from the larger Jewish world.

Like so many Bukharian families, ours found its second home in Queens, New York — in Forest Hills and Rego Park, where the community rebuilt its synagogues, its tables, and its traditions block by block. The name traveled a long way to get here. This page is where we keep it.

Your family story goes here. Replace this with your own words — where the Nektalovs began, the grandparents and great-grandparents who carried the name, the journey from Central Asia to New York, and what you want the next generation to remember. A few honest paragraphs are worth more than anything polished.

In memory

Those we remember

זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה

May their memory be a blessing. Each name below carries a yahrzeit — the day we light a candle, say Kaddish, and learn in their merit.

Uriel (Yuri) Zaharovich Nektalov, 1926–1983
9 Aug 1926 — 26 June 1983
Yahrzeit
ט״ו בְּתַמּוּז
15 Tammuz · track live below

Uriel (Yuri) Zaharovich Nektalov

אוריאל בן זבולון ז״ל
Teacher · Physicist · Samarkand

Born on 9 August 1926 in Samarkand, the second son of Zavulun and Neqadam Nektalov. He came of age in wartime; when he finished school in 1943, teachers were scarce and his elder brother Bakhor had been lost at the front. He chose the classroom over the front line — and never left it.

For some forty years he taught at Samarkand's School No. 25 — chemistry, then mathematics, and finally physics and astronomy — becoming one of the city's leading teachers and a spiritual center for a whole generation of Bukharian Jewish youth. He knew Rudaki, Hafiz, and Khayyam by heart. Thousands of students carried one instruction with them for life: одам шаветонbe a mensch.

He buried two wives. Lyuba Yagudaeva — mother of Gavriel, Larisa, and Nelya — died in 1954, when he was just twenty-eight; he went to her grave every evening. Mafrat Babakhanova, who raised those three as her own and gave him Iosif, Mara, Olga, and Yakub, died in 1976. Seven children in all.

On 25 June 1983, already gravely ill, he insisted on going to school one last time to place diplomas in his graduates' hands — "The children are waiting." He passed the next day, not yet fifty-seven. His funeral was among the largest Samarkand had ever seen, and he was laid to rest in the Jewish cemetery beside Lyuba and Mafrat. His children and their families carry the name today from New York to Vienna, Tel Aviv, Or-Yehuda, and Samarkand.

"We never amassed great riches — you are our wealth. We are only gardeners, taking joy in the saplings we raise." — Yuri Zaharovich, of his students

More of his story

His father Zavulun never reconciled himself to Soviet rule and was imprisoned more than once on false denunciations; his brother Bakhor was scarred by the Stalinist years. Uriel refused Communist Party membership his whole life, politely turning aside every offer — and was named an Honored Teacher of the Uzbek SSR only posthumously. The illness that took him began at a friend's memorial on 23 June 1983, where he had risen to speak. Three tributes preserve his memory in print: two in The Bukharian Times — by his son Gavriel Nektalov (2016) and his nephew Rafael Nektalov (2013) — and one in MOST by Prof. Rena Elizarova (1995), alongside the Bukharian poem "Hech" written by his student, the poet Mikhail Zavul.

Compiled from three published family tributes: The Bukharian Times №592 (2013) and №756 (2016), and MOST (July 1995). Yahrzeit 15 Tammuz confirmed against both the 1995 memorial notice and the civil date of passing.

Family album
Lyuba and Uriel Nektalov, Samarkand, 1951
Lyuba & Uriel — Samarkand, 1951
The Nektalov family, Samarkand
The family he built — Samarkand

Lyuba Nektalov

ליובה בת הנו בהמל ע״ה
First wife of Uriel · née Yagudaeva
Daughter of Bakhmal Yagudaeva
Mother of Gavriel, Larisa (Lora) & Nelya
Passed 15 May 1954, Samarkand

Yahrzeit: 12 Iyar · י״ב אייר (to confirm)

Mafrat Nektalov

מפרת בת הבסי ע״ה
Second wife of Uriel · née Babakhanova
A true mother to all seven children
Mother of Iosif, Mara, Olga & Yakub
Passed 8 June 1976, Samarkand

Yahrzeit: 10 Sivan · י׳ סיון (to confirm)

Never miss a date again — track every family yahrzeit, with reminders, in Yahrzeit Daily.

Built by our family — free for yours

Yahrzeit Daily

We built the tool we needed to keep our own dates. Then we made it for everyone. A companion for remembering — the Hebrew calendar, the yahrzeits of your loved ones, and the tzadikim whose merit we lean on.

  • A precise Hebrew calendar engine — yahrzeits calculated correctly, every year
  • A family tracker with reminders before each date arrives
  • Over 73 tzadikim, with their yahrzeits and stories
  • A Tehillim section to say in their memory
Our gift to the community
Open it now

Yahrzeit Daily

נֵר נְשָׁמָה

No cost. No account required to begin. Just a candle for the ones you carry.

Open Yahrzeit Daily →
yahrzeitdaily.ngnmedia.com